Thursday, 31 March 2022

March 31

Sanctions

One of the options in opposing warring nations is imposing sanctions.

Ukraine has seen the most concentrated battery of sanctions, from the UK and many countries, intended to punish Putin and affect his campaign. 

He and a whole cohort of his cronies and Russia’s immensely rich industrialists have had assets frozen and international commercial ties have been broken.

But does it work? That is problematical.

It must hit badly the ordinary Russian, far more than the top tier and Putin who shrugs it off.

One of the most interesting features has been the response of the Russian oligarch Roman Abramovich, best  known in Britain as the owner of Chelsea premier league football club.

He has been promoting himself as a possible peacemaker in the talks in Turkey, with the most sensational revelation - allegation - that he was poisoned in the process.

Russia denies it and Britain does not believe it.

To me it sounds a public relations exercise, a bid to salvage his reputation. It certainly has created international attention.

If, as is now possible, some form of peace deal is achieved, the sanctions will soon be forgotten. Money talks,.

Everyone will want to get back to business as usual.






Wednesday, 30 March 2022

March 30

Masks away!

My good day yesterday was made better by one seemingly unimportant move - not to have to wear a mask. It has taken a long time, 611 days.

It was ordered, reluctantly, by prime minister Johnson in July 2020, months after most European countries and pleas from health organisations.

I wore mine yesterday for my visit to the hearing aid clinic and have got rid of all but one. I enjoyed driving my scooter into the Tesco supermarket, barefaced.

How many lives has it saved.? Impossible to tell, but over the centuries, countless millions.

Masks have been used throughout the world for many purposes including rituals and religion, burials, entertainment, shaming, disguise, and health.

The earliest surviving mask was worn in 7000 BC.  They were used during plagues and in 1920 the modern health mask was introduced in Germany and the USA before being adopted universally in the present pandemic.

Famous personal masks include Guy Fawkes, Phantom of the Opera, and Batman.

Mine is now in my health file.



Tuesday, 29 March 2022

29 March

Birdsong

I heard birds chirping in the trees opposite my flat today, the first time for years.

The reason - yesterday I was given a new pair of ‘ears’. Well, two new hearing aids.

I sat for an hour in the specialist hearing department at the Heath Hospital in Cardiff, headphones on, watching a computer screen connected with wires to headphones showing complicated graphs recording the pattern of my hearing.

Another test was listening intently, pressing a button when I could hear sound.

I cannot believe the difference. For years I have struggled with my hearing, often sitting at meetings staring blankly at speakers. It made me feel old and inadequate.

Thanks to my recent cataract operation I can now read without a magnifying glass and I hope to have my second eye operation soon - not after a three year wait as I had to for the first one.

That resulted in my ‘going private’. Successful, but expensive, and only two days after the op I had an NHS appointment! 

With all the new additions I am feeling like a new man. 

Happy to hear the birds chirping.

Thank you, NHS.





Monday, 28 March 2022

Levelling up


The latest clarion call of the government, most enthusiastically sounded by the prime minister, is ‘levelling up’. It is nothing new, one of the unsolved and possibly insoluble problems going back generations, centuries even.

Among the most obvious examples are environment, housing, wealth and lifestyle.

I have been fortunate. I have always had a comfortable, if modest home, never been too cold or hungry; and been well cared for.

Rosemary and I were able to provide the same for our children, Beverley and Robert. It has been the same with my family, originating from the Skinners and Dymonds.

When my grandmother Fanny Dymond and her husband left Pembroke Dock in the late nineteenth century to settle in Cardiff they were able to buy a comfortable three bedroom home in Splott, Cardiff, not one of the growing city’s most salubrious areas, but comfortable and pleasant where they brought up their six children, including my mother, Gwendoline.

My grandfather died young but Granny Dymond lived there for most of her ninety years.

As a young reporter in South Wales my first experience of poverty and hardship was in the mining community of the Rhymney Valley which I ‘covered’ for almost twenty years.

The contrast between rich and poor was evident, exemplified most starkly by the homes of the masters of coal, the fortunates who discovered their land covered coal, black gold’, under their land. All they had to do was to let others ‘win it’ - dig it up and sell it letting them enjoy a life of opulence and, in some cases, immense wealth.

Their names still resonate; grand families like the Windsors and the Butes. In the mid 17th century the third Marquis of Bute, with his huge estate in Scotland, spent millions with his architect creating the uniquely designed spectacular Cardiff castle in the heart of the city.

At the other end of the scale were the hovels of the miners, mostly tiny ‘two up two down’ back-to-back houses where the predominately large families huddled together, often in squalor that increased year by year.

I saw the worst ones in what was then then the small village of Pontlottyn, four miles from the so different Caerphilly, dominated by its castle.

I reported one result of the poverty and squalor week by week from the reporters' bench at the police court in Bargoed, the town for decades overlooked, dominated, by the ever growing mountain of coal slack and dust. I wrote stories of crimes ranging from stealing food to serious assaults, even murder attempts.

Fortunately, those days, like that tip, are long gone. All fifteen mines in the valley closed, tipping 15,000 miners out work There are new communities, better housing attractive towns and villages.

The valley is green again. 

It has not ‘levelled up’ and there are still differences.

These thoughts came to me during my holiday last week when I stayed with Robert and family in  their smart, roomy house in the lovely village of Chalfont St Giles in Buckinghamshire, surely one of the most salubrious counties in England, with its bustling towns, charming villages and multitude of homes that, to me qualify, as mansions.

To put it simply, the whole county seems to reek of money and, for many, a privileged life, earned and paid for. Deserved, too, no doubt.

Naturally, not everyone is so fortunate but it is a whole world apart from the days of the industrial revolution and the Pontlottyns of my experience.

There has been some levelling  almost everywhere but it is still far from prevalent in Wales and throughout Britain and will probably never be achieved

Good luck, prime minister!

Sunday, 27 March 2022

My Buckinghamshire holiday

At my age, expectations for an exciting life and stimulating lifestyle should be modest, naturally limited. It should be a time of comfort and gentle satisfaction, of memories, sad and happy. Bitter sweet. I cannot believe how different it has become for me.

A few months ago I was contemplating the increasingly realistic prospect of a steady decline, physically and mentally, like most of the residents at Sunrise Cardiff  care home. I countered this as far as I could by writing, reading and taking part in the activities.

Today my life has changed dramatically. I have a new home and a new life.

There is no better illustration of this than the time I have spent with Robert, Karen and Owen - not forgetting Rufus their lively, loveable dog. It was a delight. For four days I have enjoyed family life and new experiences which I thought were gone.

Every day was a new pleasure, organised to give me my own time and the chance to see new sights.

Among those was a visit with Karen to Owen’s school, Merchant Taylors’, one of the oldest schools  in Britain. For centuries based in the city of London, it moved out of the capital to acres of lovely countryside, with distinctively designed buildings, for work and sport, including extensive playing fields, and a concert hall.

I thought my school, Emanuel, Wandsworth, my time there cut short by the outbreak of war, was impressive but this is on a totally different scale

What a privilege for its 1,000 boys. Owen is making the best possible use of its facilities and advantages. Apart from his success in the educational side of life he is enjoying new experiences, in music and drama and the prospect of a successful future, whatever path he decides to take.

His range of activities includes yachting which he has taken up with his usual enthusiasm and skill. As with his school, the facilities at the sailing club and lake at the lovely Rickmansworth park with its lakes are excellent.


Cliveden


Another exciting day in my mini holiday was a guided tour by Robert of Cliveden, the magnificent former Astor family mansion and estate overlooking the Thames. 

Cliveden's Long Garden

I have seen many historic homes and estates, mansions and castles, in Britain and overseas and Cliveden is one of the finest.  In the warm spring sunshine, with its magnificently designed grounds, its miles of topiary, the multitude of daffodils and the superb Long Garden lined with limitless primroses it is a sheer delight.

More mundane, but for me with shopping a lifelong pleasure, was the expedition with Karen to nearby Beaconsfield where I bought a shoes and new sunglasses, essential with sunshine every day.



My stay at Chalfont St Giles ended with a celebration dinner at the White Hart where they had booked my room. (I could not stay with them as I could not manage the stairs.) Each day Robert called for me, after breakfast ready for the day’s adventure.

As always, Robert and Karen had planned everything to make my holiday safe and easy. When they first suggested I should use a wheelchair I was hesitant. To me that sounded ‘too old’, but it proved just right for the programme.




It has been one of the most memorable holidays in my life, one of the happiest over many years. There was some sadness, too, as I recalled the times Rosemary and I had spent with our two families but it only served to emphasise my incredibly good fortune in being loved and looked after so well

As I left the White Hart Robert booked my room there for Christmas.

I am old  -  very old,  but my life is still a pleasure. I hope it will continue for some time yet.

Wednesday, 23 March 2022

Holiday time

Holiday time

It’s sunny and already warm, and I am sitting in the lounge at 24 White Hart Close.The first day of my mini holiday, the first break for three years. And everything is working out 

Robert and Karen had booked a room at the nearby White Hart Inn, where I enjoyed the first of my four nights. Very comfortable easy and safe for me. 

Robert called to take me ‘home’ for dinner and I had a chat with Owen about his plans before he went to prepare for his exam today. Played chase the ball - in the lounge - with Rufus.

It was lovely to be back with them; so many memories. Karen has worked out a holiday programme for me. Today we are off to the lakes where Owen goes sailing and then on to show me his school.

It’s going to be an exiting few days, something  I could never have imagined a few months ago. 

A world away from being in a care home.

Tuesday, 22 March 2022

Holiday ahead!

Holiday ahead!

Ready to go! I am sitting waiting for Robert to arrive to take me to Chalfont St Giles and my first holiday break for over three years. What a treat. And, in a way, so unexpected .

Just a few months ago, in Sunrise, it was hard for me to imagine that there was life outside and that I would be able to join it.

But I decided that at least I should try. My aim - to go back to Penarth.

By chance I at once saw what seemed to be a perfect new home, 10 Bridgeman Court, a stone’s throw from Windsor Court where Rosemary and I spent a happy twenty years.

Since then it has all happened, buying the flat, the removal, getting my new home fully equipped and settling in. It has taken three months but I now have all I need and am living comfortably, happier and fitter than for some years.

It was the right decision, and its success is due to all the advice and help I have had.

I have said many times  how fortunate I am in many ways. For example, this week is forecast to be the sunniest and warmest so far this year.  Lucky Bob.