What is happening to Great Britain?

What is happening to Great Britain? 

The murder of MP Sir David Amess marks the relentless escalation of danger facing everyone, famous or ordinary.

And it reveals a deepening division between politicians, not just in their ideals and policies, but in their ever increasingly strident and dangerous views of their ‘opponents’.

I blame the insidious social media platforms that, far from encouraging reasoned debate on public matters, spew out anger and even hatred. 

There is justified alarm at the harm being inflicted on the public, and, in particular, the more susceptible young people. 

The increasing number of suicides is the tragic consequence of the ‘say what you like, how you like’ attitude which Facebook and the other platforms are failing to control.

I never thought we would see world leaders resorting to soundbite utterings on Twitter. 

What effect would that have had in wartime?

Following the latest tragedy, we have the usual promises that something must be done, but it will make little difference if social media is allowed to sail on, unperturbed and uncaring.

Moving on

The deed is done. I now have a new home in Penarth, 10 Bridgeman Court, Bridgeman Road, one hundred yards from Windsor Court.

A true homecoming.

As with my move to Sunrise over two years ago, I am sure I have made the right decision.

No one can be certain about the future, more difficult than ever these days, but I am satisfied, whatever happens.

Moving into a new home can be a daunting but exciting business. This will be my sixth in seventy years.

The first, with Rosemary and four year old Beverley and me was the best. 

We used to drive there every week to see it being built, 

Our move on Derby day in 1956 was exciting and the nine years we spent there were among the happiest of our life.

The next two moves were not so trouble free. The day we went to London, to Ashley Drive, Whitton was a miserable, snowing and bitterly cold.

Not easy, especially for Rosemary. Beverley and two-year old Robert. The return to Wales six years later was also fraught with difficulty.

The sale of our Ashley Drive house had stalled at the last minute, the buyer pulling out on contract signing day.

Even worse, I was due to leave in a matter of days, away for three months in Japan and the USA.

But we got through that, thanks to Rosemary’s determination and seventeen-year-old  Beverley driving her mother and Robert to Cardiff.

We were all thrilled to be back in Wales, at Winnipeg Drive, that was to be our home for almost thirty years.

The next move, our last to a new home, was to a seafront maisonette in Windsor  Court, Penarth, where we enjoyed almost twenty years before Rosemary died.

Than came my choice of Sunrise Cardiff  care  home where Rosemary and I had intended to be together.

It was one of my best decisions, despite the unique circumstances and (as it turned out within months) danger from coronavirus 

I could not have been more contented and well cared for, but  it is time to me to move out and on. 

I miss Penarth and the sea, and am looking forward to a new beginning, a new life, at 95.

I know I can manage, even now, to look after myself, with some help at home, and cannot wait to open the door at my own home.

This last homecoming is not an adventure but it gives me great satisfaction.

Whatever the future holds, I am confident it is the right move.

Making up for lost time

One of the worst aspects of the pandemic for old people has been missing our families. Especially our grandchildren and, for me, my great grandchildren.

As children do, they have grown amazingly fast. One of the joys in life is to watch and be part of that. But the pandemic put a stop to it and even now visits are possible, they are too few and far between

My experience is typical, and I have been unusually fortunate in being able to keep in touch with my growing family.

Owen sailing

Take my youngest grandson, Owen, 13. As well as physically he has developed in many ways. His life is so different now and he is obviously enjoying it;  his new school and his broadening of interests, including music, drama, writing and now adventurous sports including the latest, sailing. He is far bolder than I ever was.

I have kept in touch regularly with all of them, but there has been a gap, a void. I have missed that growing up process.

I have only seen Owen two or three times in the past 18 months - almost two lost years of getting to know him and sharing his enjoyment of life.

The same applies to my great grandchildren, Mylo, Rosa and Claudia.

That lost time cannot be made up but, whatever time I have, I intend to keep in closer touch with them and in some way make up for the lost two years.

October 10

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With most people back at work or about to return, civil servants, it seems, are still not being ordered or persuaded to go back to their desks.

And this has annoyed MP  Duncan Smith who cites the war time experience - not his, as he was not born then - when people worked as normally as possible, defying the blitz.

He has a point. Dad used to travel across London to drive his crane on a dangerous Thameside wharf.

I struggled to get to school. My five mile journey from Wandsworth to the emergency secondary school near Clapham Common during the height of the London air bombardment in 1941 sometimes took up to three hours, dodging the bombs to shelter on the way.

One day, alone in our upstairs flat, I watched as a lone German bomber, obviously damaged, fly slowly, directly over me.

There was a totally different public approach and attitude to today’s emergency, a togetherness that is absent today although the danger is less immediate.

Where’s has the famous British spirit gone?

Britain's Punch and Judy politics

Strange, how fiction is often more credible than fact.

That has been brought home to me while I have been watching the Danish television series, Borgen.

I last saw it some years ago and think it is brilliant, the casting, acting and stories of Danish politics under a woman prime minister. 

Then I thought of British politics today.

It seems pure fiction - poor fiction, too. The cast, antics and stories of a nation led by a totally unsuitable prime minister, a joker.

It is more like an elaborate Punch and Judy show with Johnson Punch berating Judy Starmer.

What a travesty.and  how dangerous. The sooner this horror, not comic, show is off the road the better

Britain deserves so much better.

Ghosts of the past

In my time at Sunrise I have been impressed by the efforts to keep us residents entertained. The daily activities programme aims to get people to mingle, to take part in events and entertainment. 

The pandemic meant a drastic reduction in the programme with the loss of visitors.We are only just starting to get back to normal and to welcome back visitors including singers and church ministers, 

The Sunrise staff events organisers and the carers have done a marvellous job keeping us physically and mentally active and I have enjoyed taking part in activities ranging from poetry to Bingo, art to skittles.

I have been disappointed at the number of residents, especially the men, who could benefit but do not bother. 

For some months I have helped by giving a series of illustrated travel talks which those who attended seem to have enjoyed.

Later this month, as part of the Halloween programme, I will make what will probably be my last contribution to the Sunrise events programme. I will read a ghost story I wrote over thirty years ago for my grand daughters, Sian, then eight and Ria, six.

The Wildeboer family had just moved into Braydon Manor, formerly a Wiltshire farm, part of which dated back over three hundred years.

The Braydon Manor ghost Siân and Ria discovered after finding an old picture in the attic had died a tragic death. And there were more surprises as they learned the whole story.

I am looking forward to retelling the sad tale.

Moving on

I have had a most successful two days, thanks to Robert who worked through a long list of my very long 'moving list’  amazingly fast, solving problems with my iPad and laptop, emails and even looking for a new computer ready for my ‘office’ in Penarth.

I am so lucky with all my family. Brenda and Ivor have helped set up my eye cataract operation which I want to have before I move. (After waiting for three years I have decided to have it done privately.) They are taking me to hospital near here on Tuesday evening to see the consultant so it should be done soon, I hope.

The flat purchase is going ahead well and I was again delighted with my new flat in Bridgeman Court, Penarth (near Windsor Court), which Robert saw for the first time yesterday.

I am so looking forward to my new life there.